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How many of you women out there have men friends? I mean really friends, someone you love to hang with or someone you e-mail and wait on bated breath to hear an update on their life. I have a few male friends that I communicate with here on the stream and some that have been life long friends and we will communicate probably for life. I love them all for their minds, you all know who you are. These relationships are a very special, added addition, to my already strong and bonded female friendships, those near and those far, you know who you are, once again...and I desperately need you all.

I love the camaraderie and the added dimensions to my thinking that the friendships bring. I think it is vital to the human element to have friends both male and female to add to our perspectives. This goes along with friends of color, gay and lesbian, different religions, ages and political viewpoints, this is all vital for a well rounded person. Being the animal lover I am, I cannot leave out our connections to this kingdom, as well. No person is an island, though some profess to be, but I personally think this is hogwash, since they are communicating this on a blog to thousands... some island! Maybe they are Manhattan...it's pretty crowded there.

Well, just want to let all my friends and relatives out there know how much I appreciate every single one of you. And, I never bunch you up together as groups, of course, except for this posting, only as a way to tell you how much you mean to me. So, let's continue this repartee for as long as we can stand it...what deya say??

luv ya,
n.
Posted by n. lynn at 2:10 PM - 13 Comments   Add a Comment  
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Just to pick up on your observation, now that you mention it, there does seem to be something about blogging that lets men and women slip more easily into each other's world and develop real friendships that might have been difficult otherwise.  
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by Anexplorer (PM , CC ) on Friday May 16, 2008 @ 4:24 PM




n. lynn, Hi! special lady. You are a woman, that I met here, and It was something very special...to have made your acquaintance. I knew from the beginning, that you loved your family, and your children, and your husband, and your life. i don't know how I knew about_ what I sensed about you, but right off, I was very open with you...in a way, that was meaningful.

No Pretend...I liked you very much. How can cyber light and ink convey the act of holding the emotion and the tension and the appeal of another_ Into and through a window in time_ to become not a business transaction, but a soul connection.

We see the results everyday in blogs, but I think it is a return in a modern vein_ to what letters used to be, because we are writing to last forever and our tone and tenure_ is so determined by our intent. \
I am about appealing to the best in what I feel... the life here on earth...can be. I haven't accomplished the great work or the great income, but I am becoming happy, just by being a real man in a real way. Family matters: Making real connections, that matter, because that is what we bring. Closeness is everything. Words matter.
I can't waite until the next time we speak. n. lynn /luv u ..TR

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p.s. I was going to say,"... what Anex said goes for me," because he is right and ditto to that, but as per usual...I had to do my thing. Hot here, today, and you(all)_have a great weekend.Bye-bye

 
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by trust the rust (PM , CC ) on Friday May 16, 2008 @ 7:32 PM




Well, if you INSIST, I suppose that we could be friends for awhile...but ONLY for another 60 years or so!! That's it!!  
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by Bry_M (PM , CC ) on Friday May 16, 2008 @ 10:35 PM




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So sweet ... I couldn't help mentioning you in my post today!

Hugggggggggggggggggz,
Taylor

P.S. As I get older, I find my friends come in all shapes, sizes, sexes and even species (have to include our pets) ... and I am thankful for everyone ... but just like you, I wouldn't dare lump them all in one category or even a room. It just can't be done! Good post.
 
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by kktaylorcc (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 17, 2008 @ 10:15 PM




Taylor, thanks for stopping by, I do think that the Stream has added a new dimension to friendships.
n.
 
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by n. lynn (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 17, 2008 @ 10:27 PM




Hi n.!

I agree with you that it's nice to have friends of all race, color, gender, etc.......it's just sad that lots of people don't see that a relationship can be platonic in nature. I'm glad and very thankful for my friends! Have a great one!

CM
 
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by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Monday May 19, 2008 @ 12:24 PM




n. lynn:

Enjoy! Early in their relationship, Harry told Sally that men and women can't be friends because sex gets in the way. In the film, Harry and Sally become best friends before they become lovers.

 
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by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Monday May 19, 2008 @ 12:37 PM




Have a safe and happy 3 day Memorial weekend, n.!

CM
 
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by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Friday May 23, 2008 @ 4:29 PM




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Hope you are enjoying a long weekend!

Hugggggggggggz,
Taylor
 
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by kktaylorcc (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 24, 2008 @ 12:26 PM




Hey Taylor, thanks for stopping by...I just stopped by your latest posts and caught up. Fun times are here on the stream, and thanks for catching most of them for us all to share.
luv,
n.
 
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by n. lynn (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 24, 2008 @ 7:21 PM




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Have a great night!
CM
 
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by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 24, 2008 @ 8:14 PM




That's it! You've done it.

The next time someone pick's on someone else on the stream, they should take a lesson from you n. Instead of fighting fire with fire and spreading anger, maybe we could count our blessings. List off everything that's GREAT about the Stream - the community, the people, the connections - and let them draw their own conclusion about why they are here. "Spread the love," so to speak?!

I think there are loads of people that wait on bated breath to hear from you.
Thanks for being one of my connections in the world.
Much love -D.

 
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by Dalpha (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 11:14 AM




Oh darn it. I just broke off communication with my only man friend. Seems like for some of us it is hard to maneuver the gray area. Either they are married and we venture too personal and they cut it off... or (as in the current case) I fell madly in love and realized that if he ever did marry anyone I would be crushed. I agree, the opposite viewpoint has been helpful and wonderful - adding to the "texture" of my life. Maybe I will be offered the opportunity to venture soon again into this territory without one of us falling in love. How annoying. lol!  
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by JenSven (PM , CC ) on Monday May 26, 2008 @ 12:19 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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